Recognized By The Pizza Guy
I've been amazed that after nearly three years of producing videos, I've never been recognized or approached by anyone out in public. Especially considering the kind of recognition and exposure most of BBA's models have had to deal with!
There have been plenty of times that I've been at the grocery store or on the train or out to eat, and caught people staring at me in a way that makes me pretty sure they recognize me from the site. But nobody's ever actually come up and said anything to me....
Until now!
Last night I decided to order pizza and relax a little bit after house/dog/and-kid-sitting for over a week. When the delivery guy showed up with my pizza, I noticed him looking at me a little strangely, like he was trying to figure out how he knew me. Then a big smile suddenly came over his face.
"Can I please shake your hand?" he asked excitedly.
The question caught me totally off guard, but as I reached out to shake his hand, I realized what was happening.
"So, ummmm....I guess you know who I am?" I asked with a smile.
"I LOVE YOU!" he exclaimed enthusiastically, grinning from ear to ear.
As he went back down the stairs, I could hear him laughing excitedly to himself and sort of shaking his head in disbelief, like he'd just met an actual celebrity or something like that
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The whole thing was so bizarre and surreal and could have lasted only two, maybe three minutes at the most.
But it left me with a huge smile on my face to have finally had my first face-to-face encounter with an enthusiastic fan. After all the hostility and harassment and homophobic bullshit the BBA models and I have had to deal with lately, it was so encouraging to see that look of excitement and appreciation in the eyes of a passionate fan!
That must've have been very exciting for you. I would like to know what kind of hostility have you and the models encountered and is that why Suspense doesn't do shoots with you any longer? By the accents of most of your models, it sounds like you are producing the videos from the south. If you are in the south, then I can understand all of the hatred and hostility you're experiencing. I was in the south for seven(7) months and I didn't get any real southern hospitality or real love. The south has changed a lot and it's very conservative, republican and homophobic. I left there SCREAMING!!!
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Hello, Calvin!
Thanks for your curiosity and concern. Although the city in which I'm filming isn't technically a part of the "South," some still consider it a "Southern" city and it is definitely a lot more conservative, racially segregated, and homophobic than I'd prefer. But it's all relative, I guess - I can think of many other places that could be much worse!
Check out the link below to read more of my thoughts on the social stigma attached to the adult entertainment industry, and especially gay porn:
http://blog.blackboyaddictionz.com/2010/01/26/realities-of-reality-porn.aspx
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Maybe you can order pizza again and ask the pizza boy if he would like to be a part of the action with extra pay. BTW, was he Black or White?
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Seducing the pizza boy is definitely a favorite fantasy of mine - along with countless other gay men and straight women all over the globe. At least I assume as much based on all the "pizza boy" porn out there, LOL.
I'm actually pursuing a really cute black pizza boy right now, and I'm hoping that one of these days I'll be able to film the "reality porn" equivalent of that fantasy.
To answer your question, the pizza guy that recognized me WAS black but not really the porn model type.
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uh yea i am the pizza man in question and nawl im not the porn type for as body im football build but that hasnt stopped me from fuckin half of st louis lol including like 6 models in bba productions, yea i was laughin because i been to his house like several several times and never knew it was him lol
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