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Website Update (with Video Teaser): Conquering Kingston

This is one of those scenes I honestly wasn’t sure I could ever make happen!

Ever since I was first introduced to Kingston almost two years ago, I’ve been dreaming of the day we might finally get to see a big, hard dick plunging in and out of his cute muscle-butt.

But turning this dream into a reality proved to be a lot harder than I thought. Unfortunately taking another man’s dick up his tight, virgin ass was a line the cocky Jamaican straight boy has been stubbornly refusing to cross for nearly TWO YEARS – regardless of how much money I offered!

“That would degrade me as a man,” he’d repeat over and over. “I don’t care how much money in the world someone can give me, I’m not putting a dick in my ass!”

Of course the more defiant and obstinate Kingston would get, the more patient and persistent I became. There’s a reason the expression “Never Say Never!” has become a tried and true mantra around here ūüėČ .

When Kingston finally texted me out of the blue late one night, telling me he was going through some hard times, and proposing an absurdly high amount that MIGHT make him change his mind, I couldn’t help but smile to myself and begin counting down the days: Yes, even cocky Kingston’s virgin ass had a price!

Skip ahead two months later:

“Sometimes I gotta do what I gotta do to survive,” a resigned and embarrassed Kingston tells the viewers at home. “I’m about to TAKE IT IN THE ASS for the first time!”

Dominic is the lucky BBA “top” assigned the enviable task of popping Kingston’s sweet cherry.

It’s been almost exactly one year since Dominic was the one in Kingston’s place, with Apollo walking HIM through his first bottoming scene. So he can easily relate to the fear and anxiety that accompany a big step like this, as he follows admirably in Apollo’s footsteps by coaching Kingston through his first time….

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Website Update: Detroit After Dark – Bandit’s Bukkake

BUKKAKE: A type of porn made famous in Japan in which multiple men take turns ejaculating on another person’s face and/or body.

We’re concluding our recent Detroit series and an unforgettable summer season with an epic group scene that has been near the top of my personal porn “bucket list” for over two years.

It isn’t too often that we have FIVE of BBA’s most popular models all together at the same time, so we decided to take advantage of the special opportunity to film our second “bukkake” – only this time with a reluctant Bandit in the submissive role!

All of the guys besides Bandit are hanging out at the hotel, reminiscing and joking around about the weekend’s adventures. When they realize Bandit’s still back at his room sleeping instead of hanging out with the group, they come up with a wicked surprise for the sexy straight boy.

The four insanely horny bisexual guys sneak into Bandit’s room and rudely wake him up by groping his slim, tattooed body and taunting him with what they have in store for him the rest of the night.

Next thing you know, clothes are flying off, Bandit’s boxer-briefs are being yanked down, and FOUR huge dicks are being shoved in his handsome, stunned face at the same time….

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Website Update: From the Archives of the DL Chill Spot – Bitch For The Day

Shawn Returns
It’s been almost exactly one year since the DL Chill Spot CEO’s tragic death. Whether you loved or hated his work, the CEO was able to find some of the hottest boys I’ve ever seen in gay porn, and also film the TYPES of guys that one rarely ever sees in gay porn. His movies were certainly frustrating and far from perfect at times, but they were also bold, fresh, edgy, and unlike anything black gay porn had ever seen before or will likely ever see again.

Many viewers have been asking me to share some of the unreleased footage and unfinished scenes from BBA’s former partnership with the DL Chill Spot. I haven’t been ready to do so for most of the past year, but now that some time has gone by, the timing feels right to revisit the DL Chill Spot’s unique body of work and share some of the content not yet seen by the public.

Shawn and Bigga Rief
This series of NEVER-BEFORE-SEEN bonus footage continues with the return of Shawn and Bigga Rief in a FULL-ACTION scene that I chose not to release at the time it was filmed.

One of my reasons for doing this was because it departs from the DL Chill Spot’s usual brand of unscripted “reality porn” to experiment with a semi-staged fantasy.

The basic idea is wickedly taboo and simple: Shawn is a down-on-his-luck homeless boy who approaches Bigga Rief on the street, begging for some spare change so he can buy a cheeseburger.

Bigga Rief invites him back to the DL Chill Spot CEO’s crib, offering him a meal and a place to stay, but ONLY if he’s willing to join the team by giving up his mouth and ass in return….

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Controversial Porn: Part 3

Michael Galletta and Day Day

Awhile back, I shared a few¬†thoughts about the potentially “controversial” nature of some of my interracial videos (you can read my original reflections here¬†and here). A blog reader recently posted the following reaction, to which I’d like to respond:

Let’s put it this way: if you were not CONSTANTLY putting your models in subservient, some would say demeaning, and most specifically positions that are demeaning such as feeling their faces and shoving your hands into their mouths as if you were inspecting them like a prospective slave buyer or doing that whole “Look at me! I’m a white guy pulling these fake thugs asses apart” thing that you do that have nothing to do with “topping” as a sexual position, then your furious blizzard of words above might hold more weight.

You compare yourself to other studios, but this is as PERSONAL to you as much as it is a business.

I’m even tempted to give you the benefit of the doubt that YOU don’t believe that you are engaging in racially informed/offensive behavior (despite your upbringing) but then your whole business is racially informed, is it not?

You have your fans who will defend you, including your models. Nothing new there. But seriously, you need to objectively stand back and look at how you actually behave in your videos. I’m not asking you to stop making videos. Only to more closely examine that heartfelt self-justification you made.

I don’t expect this to be published on the site. But then it doesn’t [have?]¬†to be.

 

Here are some of my initial thoughts in response:

I actually have no problem recognizing the controversial and potentially offensive nature of some of my interracial videos. That was sort of the whole point of those entries: to acknowledge the negative reactions that some of my videos may provoke, but at the same time point out the hypocrisy, inconsistency, and unfairness of those criticisms (in my opinion).

You¬†suggest that I like to put my models in “subservient” positions, and you describe my videos as “demeaning” and reminiscent of slavery. While you’re certainly entitled to your opinion, I’d like to point out that¬†those are purely subjective, debatable value judgments on your part. Some people¬†will watch my videos and find them similarly disturbing and offensive, while others will see no problem with them whatsoever. Each viewer is going to evaluate my videos (and porn in general) through the filter of¬†his or her¬†own personal experiences, prejudices, and subjective erotic¬†tastes.

The claim that some of the imagery in my videos¬†reminds one of¬†a white slave-owner inspecting a potential “purchase” is an absurd and unfair accusation, in my opinion.¬†I guess by the¬†same logic, any white¬†man (or white woman, for that matter) who touches a black male sexually is similar to white slave-owners who¬†felt up potential slaves on the auction block during the time of slavery. I mean, where do you draw the line when making arguments like that?!? Slaves were also frequently forced to strip naked¬†as a part of¬†such inspections. Am I also somehow imitating a sadistic plantation overseer when I instruct my models to¬†take off their¬†clothes¬†for their solo scenes?!?

How Gay Will He Go (Mild) - Part 1
Listen, I’m all for recognizing and¬†redressing¬†the legacies of slavery, both social and economic. But I think we head down a very slippery slope when we start seeing echoes of slavery in every interracial encounter, both sexual and non-sexual. If we want to pursue such statements to their (il)logical conclusions, I suppose we could also say that white supervisors barking orders at black employees is also reminiscent of slavery. Or black waiters and waitresses serving dinner to white married couples at the local “Applebee’s.” Or white men coaching athletic teams in predominantly black neighborhoods. In fact, one could argue that any time a black person has sex with a white person, regardless¬†of¬†who’s doing the penetrating, it’s similar to the¬†days of slavery. In my opinion, arguments like that are usually¬†pretty stupid and pointless, and they ultimately distract from the very real and persistent racial inequalities we should be talking about.

The overall point I was trying to make in my original blog entries¬†was that things like objectification, domination/submission, conquest, seduction, etc., are universal themes in pornography. If¬†one enjoys and approves of such themes in erotica, then it’s not fair to cry “racism” when those same themes are explored in an interracial context.

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Why Are My Videos So Damn QUIET?!?

I love watching loud, raunchy, aggressive sex.

The kind of sex where the “top” takes control both physically and verbally. Sometimes it’s an attitude of confidence¬†or even¬†cockiness,¬†with the “top” barking orders¬†like, “Yeah, swallow that dick!” or “You gonna give me some of that ass?!?” or “Take that dick!” Other times, it’s more intense and aggressive, verbal taunting like “Get on your knees and suck this motherfuckin’ dick!”¬†or “Yeah, choke¬†on that dick!” or “Damn, you takin’ that dick like a bitch!” etc. etc.

The kind of sex where the “bottom” gasps and winces¬†and groans….not with girlish squeals of ecstasy, but masculine grunts of resistance and endurance, pain mingled with pleasure, and maybe even¬†a bit of humiliation about the fact that his ASS is being¬†enjoyed¬†by another man. Ass is sure as hell not pussy, and when a man gets fucked in¬†his ass, it’s a very different kind of experience¬†from a woman enjoying vaginal intercourse. For me, it’s the fact that there’s something difficult and “unnatural” about a man’s asshole¬†being penetrated¬†that makes it so hot to watch. That’s probably why I’m so turned on by watching inexperienced “tops” take dick….the pained facial expressions, the muscles tightened defensively, the squirming discomfort with occasional flashes of reluctant pleasure….all of that depicts a kind of conquest, the surrendering of one man’s body to another, that is intensely arousing to watch.

Rough, verbal sex almost always makes for hotter porn, in my opinion. Isn’t porn ultimately about the art of exaggeration, taking our fantasies and fetishes and making them almost ridiculously explicit and larger than life? So it’s no wonder that the best porn usually involves a little bit of aggression and¬†“dirty talk.”

That brings me to¬†my biggest disappointment with my own videos so far: the fact that they’re so damn QUIET!

I’ve been recognizing this as a weakness in my videos¬†for awhile now, and a couple of you have brought it up lately, so I figured it was¬†as good a time as any to¬†discuss it on the blog. In¬†all of my videos, I think there are¬†plenty of arousing visuals and memorable action. Even the natural sounds of dick-sucking, ball-slurping, butt-licking, and ass-fucking¬†can be a real turn-on. But I’ll be the first to admit that my videos lack the kind of¬†aggressive edge and verbal¬†exchanges I’d prefer!

Part of this can’t be helped, I’m afraid. At least not until I find some places other than my apartment where I can film. There are coffee-shops and restaurants right next to where I live, which means I have very little privacy because people are almost always around (if you’ve watched any of my videos, you’ve probably already heard the sounds of people laughing, dogs barking, children playing, etc. in the background). Plus, I have a neighbor living in an apartment right next to me, and the walls in my apartment building are¬†frustratingly thin. So sadly, rough and verbal sex isn’t¬†much of¬†an option for me until I find some other places to shoot.

Still, I know things could be at least a LITTLE more energetic than they’ve been so far. It seems like the guys I’ve worked with so far just aren’t the aggressive¬†or verbal types. As a couple of you have already pointed out, part of this is no doubt¬†due to the fact that¬†all of the guys I’ve worked with have never done anything like this before, so they’re understandably going to be a little nervous and inhibited throughout their first video-shoots.¬†Most of the guys I’ve worked with so far also tend to be quiet, laid-back types, and when they have sex it’s just naturally¬†quiet and laid-back like their personalities.

I’m no exception. I¬†can get a little dominant physically sometimes….grabbing a guy’s head while he’s sucking my dick, smacking my hard dick against his face,¬†fairly standard stuff like that….but I’ve never¬†done a very good job at being¬†verbally dominant. I basically have¬†two expressions that I use on a regular basis: “Ahhh, that feels good!”….and “You like that?!?” Even¬†with those rather corny and mild expressions, I usually feel ridiculous when I hear the words come out of my mouth!

Shyne likes to tease me about this, and¬†tells me¬†that I need to come up with some “new material.” Not that¬†he has any room to talk, considering the fact that he’s almost comically quiet during his scenes, even when he’s obviously enjoying himself.

And that brings up another issue. My basic porn philosophy as an amateur producer has been to let the guys be themselves and just film whatever happens with little¬†to no coaching or interference from me. The sex might be mediocre, it might be awful, and maybe, just maybe, it will be sizzling-hot….but¬†whatever happens, it will be REAL.

But lately I’ve begun to realize that a little more¬†“directing” from me might be necessary, especially when working with shy, nervous, and/or sexually inexperienced models. Still, I worry that too much coaching from me might cross the line¬†between authentic amateur porn and phony, exaggerated “acting.”

Like many of you, I’d like to see things get a little more¬†intense and dirty and verbal in future videos. I will strive to direct the action a little more, without spoiling its spontaneity and authenticity. As I evolve as a producer/director, I will also continue to evolve as a performer, hopefully growing more confident and creative and¬†daring in future videos. Plus, I will continue finding new models, and I’m sure some of them will be more naturally wild and outgoing and aggressive in the bedroom than the guys I’ve featured so far.

Trust me, I’m my own worst critic, and things will only get hotter from here….

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